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A New Audrey Hepburn Documentary Reveals the Life Beyond the Glamour

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In 1968, after marrying Andrea Dotti (her first husband was the actor Mel Ferrer and the two were not the best match), Hepburn went into semi-retirement in Rome. “I wanted to be a mother. Ever since I was a child, I loved babies, and when I was grown up I was going to have lots of babies. I think that has been a conducting theme in my life,” says Hepburn. Her voice is narrating a home video of her firstborn son, Sean, playing in the grass. “It’s what has made my decisions always. And because I wanted it so much, I wanted to enjoy it very much and not rip myself from it all the time…I more or less quit movies to stay home…I don’t want to be made to sound virtuous. It was a very knowing and, if you like, selfish decision. It’s what made me happiest, to stay home with my children. It was not a sacrifice because I thought I should take care of my children.” Taking precautions with her pregnancy with her second son, Luca Dotti, the actress retreated into her family life, committed to making her marriage work. But as many commentators in the film explain, Hepburn didn’t get her happily ever after with Andrea. Emma reveals that the Italian paparazzi had photographed him with over 200 other women. Hepburn and Dotti’s marriage ended in 1982.

Through Audrey, one learns that though the limelight only ever flattered the actress, she was most in her element outside of it. By the late 1960s, Hepburn had relocated almost full-time to an idyllic farmhouse in Tolochenaz, Switzerland which she had named La Paisible (or “peaceful” in French). There, she was free from the paparazzi and able to give her children a small-town upbringing. 

Though Hepburn didn’t get the love she so wanted from her father (even when Hepburn attempted to reconnect with him as an adult, he didn’t take warmly to her) or from her first two husbands, she was sure to dole it out to her children, as well as to those less fortunate. By the late 1980s, Hepburn was very active with UNICEF. In the film, she discusses the kindness of the NGO, and how she could never forget the role it had played in her own life after the occupation. “The first thing I remember after our liberation in Holland was the Red Cross and UNICEF coming in and filling all the empty buildings that they could find with food, and clothing, and medication. I was suffering from a rather high degree of malnutrition when the war ended, so God knows I know the value of food,” says Hepburn in an interview. In Audrey, she’s more often seen in Lacoste polos and jeans for her UNICEF Goodwill Ambassador Tours (she visited Ethiopia, Venezuela, and Ecuador) than on the red carpet—likely how the actress would have preferred it.

Hepburn spent her final years in the companionship of Dutch actor Robert Wolders. “I can trust him. I trust his love. I never fear that I’m losing it,” says Hepburn. Though the two never married, in him Hepburn did find the love denied to her for most of her life. With Wolders in Switzerland, she really did find some peace.

A celebration of Hepburn’s fashionable life below.

1950s

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Hepburn on location for Love in the Afternoon in 1957 near the Chateau de Vitry in Gambais, France. Photo: Getty Images

Everlane Cardigan

$68

EVERLANE

Valentino white shirt

$980$588

SSENSE

Veronica Beard dhara pedal-pusher

$350$105

VERONICA BEARD

Free People bow scrunchie

$6

FREE PEOPLE

1960s

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Hepburn poses with her new husband, Italian psychiatrist Dr. Andrea Dotti, after their wedding on January 18, 1969.Photo: Getty Images

Valentino crepe mini dress

$3,400$1,360

SAKS FIFTH AVENUE

Pink head scarf

Calzedonia white sheer tights

$6

CALZEDONIA

Badgley Mischka Dyanne satin flats

$198

NEIMAN MARCUS

Free People mesh gloves

$48

FREE PEOPLE

The Refresh bouquet

$35

URBAN STEMS

1970s

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Hepburn pushing her son, Luca, in her garden in Italy. Photographed by Henry Clarke, Vogue, April 1971. © 2020 ARTISTS RIGHTS SOCIETY (ARS), NEW YORK

Rixo Roxy dress

$325$195

SHOPBOP

Modcloth scrunchie

$15

MODCLOTH

Silver Cross Balmoral stroller

$3,900

SHOP HAPPY MANGO

Supergoop! baby sunscreen

$26

NORDSTROM

1980s

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Hepburn at the Sheraton Hotel in New York City for the 17th Annual International Emmy Awards in 1989. Photo: Getty Images

Veronica Beard Leona dress

$545$381

MY THERESA

Manolo Blahnik Okkato pump

$1,095

BERGDORF GOODMAN

Glittering Night earrings

$95

UNICEF MARKET

Erdem embellished bow belt

$695$347

MY THERESA

1990s

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Hepburn, UNICEF’s Goodwill Ambassador, holds hands with two small girls while visiting a small village close to Hanoi in 1990/91.Photo: Getty Images

Lacoste stretch cotton polo

$145

LACOSTE

J Brand pleat front peg

$248$124

J BRAND

Keds Champion sneaker

$50

SHOPBOP

Unicef Shirt

$40

UNICEF MARKET

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